I agree it is hard to find a server that has the correct balance of loot and missions and mods. Most do follow the norm of giving things to the player...... I hate that. That and badmins. I can say however if you are looking for something outside the norm pm me. I'm not a provider, just an admin with a whole lotta love for the hardcore.
Props to all you guys out there trying to get more players to actually work for their loot...