Fixed it! I feel so stupid right now, was running the server on a bad port..
So I just set up a server on our dedicated machine, We're running MariaDB and a Arma2 Overpoch server on it with no problems but Exile doesn't want to work.
It connects properly to the DB as far as I can see, was running the server with RHS first but removed that, did not help.
The server is running according to the logs if I understand them correctly.
Server RPT
Client RPT
Been stuck here for a while now..
Any help would be greatly appreciated
edit: Also the server is running on a Windows Server 2012 R2 Machine